Updated: Aug 24, 2020
Recently I got a message with a sweet mama who said this: "Hey I’m feeling really off emotionally today. Any helpful tips?" First things first...I'm HONORED to be a safe space to land for you and grateful for anyone who does ask my advice. I LOVE sharing these things with you. So please never hesitate to reach out on social media or email! K...so let's get to it. I recommend saving this for when you need to reach for it when you have off days.
5 Tips for when you're feeling "off":
When we calm our breathing, we calm our minds. Doesn’t have to be long, even just 5-10 minutes of deep meditative breathing will help. If you'd like some guided meditations, check out my meditation series here. It's a great way to calm your thoughts and return to YOU. 2️⃣Journal Grab a pen and your journal and write out the feels and find out WHY you're feeling like you're feeling and the new story you can tell yourself that's your truth! (I have a free journal to your soul pdf where I teach you simple steps to journaling and HOW to get that better feeling thought through writing too!) 3️⃣Shift how you’re feeling is by asking: What’s ONE better feeling thought that I can have right now? Doesn’t have to mean we go from feeling 0 to feeling 100, that doesn’t work long term anyway. But rather, moving up the scale of feeling a little better, a little better, a littler better. FEEL that feeling. 4️⃣Gratitude Set a timer for 5-10 minutes and list everything you’re grateful for and feel the FEELINGS of gratitude. Put yourself into the moments where you experienced so much gratitude and stay in THAT feeling for as long as you can. Then keep returning to that feeling the rest of the day (and ummm...forever! Appreciation/Gratitude is the highest vibration!) 5️⃣Put on some fun music and DANCE When you’re dancing and acting silly it’s hard to be mad! Am I right?! Remember--FUN music...no sappy or angry music. I love a good song that takes me back and makes me cry (lol! Sometimes it just hits us at the SOUL), I also LOVE rock music!!! But the point is to have FUN here!!! Heck---throw on some fun 90s and early 2000s jams! Here's my Empowered Women Rising playlist from spotify
Bonus Tips! Know what's going on energetically. I like to stay "in the know" by following a few of my favorite influencers: Spirit Daughter and Alex Myles on Instagram. The full moon affects us, what's going on in the cosmos effects us, eclipses, etc etc! Everyone is affected differently and some more than others but it's definitely really cool to be informed!
FIND YOUR JOY! Drop the to do list and go fill your cup. YES I know you have responsibilities and things that you may HAVE to do but what can you do for YOU that will bring you JOY???
Lastly...give yourself grace and know it's also ok to sit in the mud sometimes! (And truly...crying is healing too!)
Entrust a friend or 2 who will catch you and lift you back up. 👭🤗🦋 If you're feeling like you need an energetic reset and some help healing or getting back to feeling like YOU again, 1:1 Quantum energy healing appointments are being booked now 😍(Click here to see when the next group energy healing session is) Which tip is your fav? Anything you enjoy doing that I didn't add in my top 6?
𝘏𝘦𝘺! 𝘐'𝘮 𝘊𝘩𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘢𝘯! 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘢 𝘘𝘶𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘶𝘮 𝘙𝘦𝘪𝘬𝘪 𝘔𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳 & 𝘚𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘊𝘰𝘢𝘤𝘩. 𝘐 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘸𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘢𝘯𝘹𝘪𝘦𝘵𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘮 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘷𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴. 𝘐 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘶𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘸𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘥𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘮𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘐 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦.